Networking During the Holidays: How to Keep Your Pipeline Moving Without Feeling Like You’re Working
Maria Medina The Coaching Network
The holidays are here! ☃️🦃
Your calendar is filling up with parties, family gatherings, community events, dinners, school functions, and probably at least one event you agreed to attend and immediately regretted.
So naturally, this is when many business owners decide:
“I’ll get back to business in January.”
But completely shutting down your networking and business development for six weeks can make January a lot quieter than you intended.
The good news is that staying visible during the holidays doesn’t mean spending December glued to your laptop or turning every holiday party into a sales pitch.
In fact, the holidays can be one of the easiest times of the year to build relationships.
The key is remembering that networking During the Holidays doesn’t always have to look like networking.
Here are five ways to keep building relationships and creating opportunities during the holidays without making the holidays feel like work.
1. Stop Thinking Every Conversation Has to Be a Sales Conversation
You’re at a holiday party. Someone asks:
“So, what do you do?”
Congratulations. You’re networking. You didn’t have to register for an event, put on a name tag, or deliver a 60-second elevator pitch. Networking is simply having conversations and building relationships.
Forbes has pointed out that holiday networking doesn’t have to happen at traditional networking events. Lunches, dinners, holiday cards, social media, phone calls, emails, and one-on-one conversations can all be opportunities to strengthen your network.
So when someone asks what you do, don’t immediately switch into salesperson mode. Just have a conversation.
Instead of:
“I’m a business coach specializing in…”
Try something more natural:
“I work with small business owners who are incredibly busy but somehow still feel like they’re not getting enough done.”
That gives the other person something to respond to.
They may say:
“That sounds like me.”
Or:
“You need to meet my friend Sarah.”
And just like that, a normal conversation created a business opportunity.
2. Use the Holidays to Reconnect With People You Already Know
When was the last time you talked to that former client?
What about the person you met at a networking event six months ago?
Or the referral partner you kept meaning to schedule coffee with?
The holidays give you one of the easiest reasons all year to reconnect. You don't need an elaborate email.
“Hi Sarah! I was thinking about you and wanted to wish you a happy holiday season. How have things been?”
That's it.
And importantly, you don't have to ask them for anything.
Reconnect.
Ask how they're doing.
Find out what's happening in their business.
Relationships don't always need an immediate ROI. Sometimes the opportunity comes from simply reminding someone that you exist.
3. Pay Attention to the Conversations Already Happening Around You
Holiday conversations tend to include questions like:
“How's work going?”
“What's new with the business?”
“What are you working on next year?”
Those questions create natural opportunities to talk about what you do. But there's an even bigger opportunity:
Listen to what other people are saying. Someone might mention:
“We've been trying to hire someone for months.”
“Our marketing just isn't working anymore.”
“I really need to get organized next year.”
“We're thinking about expanding.”
“I want to start my own business.”
You don't have to immediately sell them something. Ask another question.
“What's been the biggest challenge with that?”
Now you're having a meaningful conversation. And sometimes you'll realize you can help them. Other times, you'll realize you know someone else who can. Either way, you're networking.
This is also why being genuinely curious matters. In the previous Networking ROI article, we talked about being “more interested than interesting.” The strongest networkers aren't necessarily the people talking the most. They're often the people asking the best questions and actually listening to the answers.
4. Make Introductions and Give Before You Ask
One of the easiest ways to stay top of mind during the holidays has nothing to do with selling your own business.
Help someone else.
Maybe your cousin mentions they're looking for a realtor. Your neighbor needs a graphic designer. A client is searching for a bookkeeper. Someone at a holiday party needs exactly the service one of your networking contacts provides. Make the introduction.
This is how strong referral networks are built. You become the person who knows people.
And when someone in your network hears:
“I really need help with…”
you want them thinking:
“I bet Maria knows someone.”
You don't build that reputation by constantly asking for referrals. You build it by becoming a resource.
5. Don't Disappear Until January
Taking time off is good. Disappearing from your business for six weeks probably isn't.
You don't need to maintain your normal networking schedule throughout the holidays, but you can create a holiday minimum.
Maybe that's:
Reach out to three people each week.
Attend one holiday event.
Schedule one coffee.
Make one introduction.
Follow up with one person you've been meaning to reconnect with.
That's enough to keep relationships moving without making your holiday season feel like another full-time job.
And there's another benefit. When January arrives, you're not starting from zero.
You already have conversations happening.
You already have coffees scheduled.
You already know what people are working on.
And you already have opportunities developing.
The holidays don't have to stop your pipeline. They can actually help build the one you'll be working from next year.
Final Thoughts
Networking during the holidays doesn't mean handing out business cards at Christmas dinner.
Please don't be that person 🤦♀️
It means recognizing that relationships don't stop because the calendar says December.
Go to the party. Have dinner with friends. Attend the community event. Send the holiday message. Talk to the person standing next to you while you're waiting for coffee. Ask people what they're working on. Listen. Make introductions. Reconnect with someone you haven't spoken to in a while.
Some of your best business conversations may happen when you're not trying to have a business conversation at all.
Because networking isn't something you turn on when you walk into a networking event.
It's simply what happens when you stay curious, build relationships, and keep having conversations.
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About Maria Medina
Maria Medina is an ICF-certified business and networking coach and Founder of The Coaching Network. She helps entrepreneurs create calmer, more profitable businesses through strategic networking, time management, communication, and business growth systems.
Before launching The Coaching Network, Maria spent nearly a decade owning and operating a successful print and marketing business and has worked across multiple countries in marketing, business operations, and client relationship management.
Learn more at About Maria Medina from The Coaching Network or schedule a complimentary consultation.
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